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I was raised in the Baptist church. As a child I was forced to go to church by my father with the rest of my siblings. My parents had an awful marriage. He wasn't interested in how his wife or children felt about anything. We were all dictated to and pushed around. It was terrible. He was a roaring racist, homophobic, and sexist. He abused the Bible by picking and choosing scripture that suited his agenda and subjected us to long sermons at home. He had the respect of a lot of people in my church and was given a lot of leadership positions. Everyone loved my dad. Kids at youth group would tell me that they wished my dad was their dad. No one saw the real man. My mother had a lot more guts than any of the rest of us. When I was around 9 she started flat out refusing to go to church anymore. She basically told my dad that if he was the prototype of what God wanted something was way, way off. It was that summer that my mom took off and left me and my brother and sister. We would not see her again for 9 years. I cannot describe the anger. I wanted to go with her!

After my mom left things just got worse. It was like my dad had to compensate in front of the church to explain why my mom left. He wouldn't let us out of his sight. He pulled us out of school to be homeschooled. I think because he didn't want me or my siblings to tell a teacher what was going on. That year we were homeschooled was the worst year of my life. We learned NOTHING. My siblings and I had no outlet. We never got to get away from any of it. The lady from church that was teaching us also happened to be my dad's little [censored] on the side and she had no problem letting us know that she was going to be our new mommy because our mom abandoned us. Almost everyday our dad would let us know that we were the reason our mother left. I knew better but my little brother still struggles with issues with women to this day. He has anger-management problems. My little sister was pregnant by 15 (I firmly believe she was molested by a member of the church but she won't tell) and that resulted in an abortion and I took her. My father would have beaten and humiliated her. So for all of you who shook your head at me for my views on abortion maybe you should walk a mile in another person's shoes. I believe I saved her life that day. At this point...I had NO faith in God. NONE. My little brother would pray and pray. He would shut his eyes so hard that it would give him headaches. Nothing ever happened. Nothing.

I was 21 years old when I finally got it. I was mugged, pistol-whipped and left for dead. I remember being face down with blood running in my eyes blinding me and I couldn't move. The next thing I remember is someone whispering to me very softly and lifting me up out of a puddle and leaning me against my car. They said everything was alright but they would stay with me until the ambulance came. I passed out. Many weeks went by and I became interested in thanking the police officers who arrived on the scene and saved my life. I also wanted to thank the woman who stayed with me until help came. I contacted the officer and thanked him, etc. but I asked him about the woman and was her name in his records or anything. He looked at me blankly. To make this very long story short, there was no woman. No earthly woman anyway. I believe it was an angel.

I know that some may pick that apart and refer to the fact that I had head trauma which I did, but I know what I know and how I felt.
What I did with that experience is turn my life around. I felt like a higher power wanted me to live and wanted me to know he was there. Things haven't ever been the same since.


Dear CS,
Thank you for sharing your story. I believe it was an angel, too. Miracles do happen. It sounds like if you had died then, you might be in hell now. But God gave you another chance. I'm so thankful for the outcome.
Though I don't agree with abortion, I can understand why you did what you did. I had an abortion as a result of a desperate situation and fear. But I believe God has forgiven me for that, and I hope to see my child in heaven some day.
I pray that God will continue to bless you.


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Jul 23, 2008 11:30 AM
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Thank you all so much for sharing your stories with me. This small glimpse into each of your lives has shed so much light for me about each of you. I truly appreciate you taking the time to do this. After reading what each of you have written, it is very easy to see why each of you are so passionate about your beliefs. Again, I thank you.

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Aren't you going to share your story? I'd like to hear it


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The good thing about beliefs, is that they can be changed. They are not absolute.

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"Those who come to Christ are happy with their choices and those who don't, are just as content."

Malcolm,
You and I seem to line up on a number of things but, I don’t think I can line up with your contentment comment. Let me put this out there then hear what you have to say.

I’ve come to believe that God in His creation has placed a void in all our hearts, that can only be filled by Him.

The Bible says in Colossians 1:16 that we, were made "by God and for God." I believe there is something in our nature that cries out for God, longs for God, that needs God. It is physical. It is mental. It is all encompassing.

I think we all search in our own way, for meaning in life. Imo, its one of the things that separate from the animals, but , I digress. ;-)

I like to point to Hollywood as a prime example of people who are trying to fill this void in their hearts. One would think that most of the stars in Hollywood, who have fame and live the glamorous lifestyle, own the biggest houses, own several cars, have boats, the best clothes, etc. etc, would be the happiest people on the planet. But, from what I can seem they’re not. They’re some of the most miserable people. They go through marriages, like its nothing. This is probably why so many of them want to be involved with politics.For some reason they become experts on issues they now little about. They think being politically active gives them meaning in life. There have so much, yet there is a void in their life that their searching to fill.

Have you ever said to yourself, that if only I can get that job, or buy that car, I would be satisfied and content? .
Then you land the job or by the car, and a few months later, the same empty felling returns. You want a better car or a better Job.

Some people use alcohol or some other drugs to try and fill this void. I think George tries to find some meaning in his life to direct people away from God.

I believe God created this Void in all of us, knowing that He is the ONLY one who can fill it. All other attempts to fill the void, will eventually fail

God didn’t create this void in us to be filled by our jobs or sports or hobbies our a girlfriend or boyfriend, or a better car

This void imo, was created "by God and for God," and nothing else will fill it completely.

The only thing that will never fail to fill the void is Jesus Christ.

So when you compared the contentment to what Jesus offers to what the world offers as being equal, I felt inspired to write.:

What say you?


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Jul 24, 2008 01:42 PM
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Don't think that I'm trying to detract, or derail your conversation with Malcolm, but I would like to point out that Jesus failed to fill the void with both me and 8 Ball. So making the statement "the only thing that will never fail to fill the void is Jesus Christ," is incorrect. Also, I don't think there is a void that needs to be filled. Sure, everyone wants purpose in life, but only because we are capable of pondering such things and don't want to feel insignifigant.

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